Sunday, June 26, 2011

Jubilee, uncorrelated ...

We had our regional Jubilee.  It was obviously not a product of correlation. Parts were good.  Parts were hideous.  Parts were funny (such as the "ohh, look at that cute lesbian couple" remark one person in the audience managed to say at a moment their voice would carry).  They had clips of lots and lots of the kids saying things.  No universal format.  No apparent style guide.  Kind of fresh, but the ones of girls talking about marriage made it clear that while a mission was nice, what really counted was a guy had to be tall.  Which led someone to remark that I sure got lucky since I had by far the best wife in the group.

Obviously, I remarked, she wasn't corrupted by going to dance festival ...

Though if they only knew, I got more than lucky.  My wife is better than I knew could be possible.  I remain grateful for the path that led me to her and for her marrying me.


Also ran across a blog post I really liked:



Simon Peter said unto him, Lord, whither goest thou? Jesus answered him, Whither I go, thou canst not follow me now; but thou shalt follow me afterwards.
Peter said unto him, Lord, why cannot I follow thee now? I will lay down my life for thy sake.
Jesus answered him, Wilt thou lay down thy life for my sake? Verily, verily, I say unto thee, The cock shall not crow, till thou hast denied me thrice.
Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.
Absolute silence for a moment, then I asked, “Does that change your understanding

I'm grateful to God for many things. It is good to remember them.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Father's Day

This week I had the first good Father's Day I've had since 1992. I've started half a dozen posts on Father's Day, from one about my dad's music (based on NPR) to a grief recover one, to just my surprise at not only how pleasant the day was, but how much I appreciate my wife's live and kindness and my children.

I'm still not completely able to express any of that, but it was a good day. I miss my dad, I miss my girls, I miss having Heather at college (she came back early this year and had to go back for work) but I loved talking with her on the phone, waking up with my wife (to go running before it got hot), breakfast "in bed" (actually on the couch in the office, too sweaty from the run to eat in bed), taking cookies to High Priests' group (my wife felt they needed treats again) and just a wonderfully pleasant day, down to being able to fall asleep knowing Win would be there.

I was happy. I am happy now. I'll leave it at that.


I've also done another book review. The book ends on dealing with grief, which I left out of my review. Recommended, though to a narrow audience.

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Tourrette's -- the camp Rachel missed this year.

http://vimeo.com/20143344


Tourette Syndrome: Up Close from Cut to Create on Vimeo.


It was a great loss in more ways than one when she fell off that cliff.

She has the 3/4" she lost in height from the fall. It has finally come back. But she missed camp this year, that is something that won't come back.

Saturday, June 04, 2011

NTRPG Con

I've enjoyed a number of various conventions over the years.  I've spoken at a number of different groups and meetings.  What is fun is that so few of my interests have significant overlap.  The ADR professionals are really not very interested in RPGS.  The lawyers who have an interest in ethics are not necessary ones interested in the other legal areas I am asked to present in.

But I really like the people at NTRPG.  Sandy Petersen could not make it this year, but will be there next year and it is a time to meet up with a lot of very good people.  It is not crowded, the level of obnoxious outliers is incredibly small.

Next year will be even more fun, as we will have a sword cutting demonstration (since the new venue has details that support that).  Now, if I can talk my brother Daniel into coming down we can have some bamboo mat cutting, otherwise it will just be two liter bottles and just for education.

This year has been great.  Even signing autographs has been fun (usually I find it embarrassing).

Saturday, May 28, 2011

Coping and thinking



I participate in a men's group on Saturday mornings.  It does my heart good.  I've been attending for years now.  Recently, I found someone else in it painful enough that I started showing up late, leaving early, looking for excuses not to be a part.  The group has dropped significantly in attendance.

That person has gotten under control and it was great to see the guys this morning.  They are important to me.

Found out this week that a good friend is terminal. He is hoping for a year and a half more of life, may or may not make it.  I'll respect  his privacy, but my heart goes out to him, far away that he is.  I'm still hoping he can make it to Texas for some barbecue before the end.

Peace.



Also, ran into http://www.phdcomics.com/comics.php

Made me smile.

Friday, May 27, 2011

When my mom was called as bishop

Well, actually it turned out they wanted to call my dad, but they asked her permission (and did not even ask him).  She said yes, and when he got back in town from his assignment (he was on the district counsel) he was informed he had been called, and sustained in his absence.

They left him on the district counsel so that they could have someone in both callings present for the reorganization.

My dad was bemused (he never was asked, btw, they had his wife's permission and that was enough), and my mom was just interviewed about it (and other things) yesterday by the Church History department.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

The tornado sirens can be distracting

Especially when you are trying to watch the weather on the television. 

I'm still not sure why ours went off.  The intense weather is south of here.  Glad I'm not trying to watch a Texas Ranger game at the ballpark in Arlington.

Going to get everyone to bed early tonight, and settle everyone in now.

Peace.

And my prayers for those in Joplin and other places where the sirens were for them.

Mysteries of the Kingdom (my Wheat & Tares post for Thursday)

There are three kinds of mysteries.  The mysteries of godliness, by which men become more like God.  Faith, hope and charity are the chief among these. Next are the mysteries of creation. If the mysteries of godliness are the similar to knowing how to live in a house, the mysteries of creation are similar to knowing how to build a house (most people think of these when they think of "mysteries").  Finally there are the mysteries of salvation, which include the temple.

There is much to be said about the temple.  Most of the "public" discussions come from the writings and addresses of Hugh Nibley following the Manti Temple seminars/discussion group he had that was commissioned by the first presidency for the consideration of the temple in the 1970s that led to the clarifications and emendations in the temple as we have it today.

Some of the matters are simple.  In the Egyptian endowment one passes between worlds or stations by boat.  In the Chinese/Triad mysteries one passes through the stations by crossing bridges.  As one can see in the books illustrating and displaying the Salt Lake and Manti temples, one passes between worlds or rooms by passing through doorways and past thresholds.  A modern temple uses much more subtle indicators.

Or consider what the stations indicate. In historic studies of temples and similar rituals and heroquests there are the five wounds of death that are recovered from/healed on the way to resurrection and there are four breaths that lead to eternal life.  Through the very early 80s, Nibley was known to favor the five wounds of death interpretation.  There is reason to believe that he changed over to the four breaths (the last of which is gained in the resurrection).

Finally there is the question of the relationship between men and women and what the temple means by it.  We do know that many general authorities and a number of prophets have taught that men and women are equal and that any man that thinks he has a right by means of the priesthood to control his wife or have the final word has lost the priesthood (look at some of the talks on that topic vis a vis D&C 121).

There are also a good number of sermons, informed by temple attendance, indicating that what inequality that exists between the sexes is the result of the fall and is to be overcome by means of the temple, not instituted thereby. Nibley gave some very interesting public addresses that brushed against this concept or that taught it directly, prior to his involvement in the rectification of the ceremony vis a vis earlier texts and lectures by Brigham Young, Joseph Smith and others.

Of course one is free to find an unmediated revelation in what God intends each person to learn, which is part of the essence of the temple, but it is relevant to consider what the most recent editors and emendations intended and taught in finding an understanding of how we are informed and inspired by the temple.

Next week I'll try to come back to Utopias and why we don't recognize them when we encounter working utopias in the modern world.  I also have a post pending on how to complain without sounding like the mentally ill.  But the temple is the heart of Zion, so I've taken a moment to discuss the mysteries of the kingdom, salvation and the temple on the way to discussion of Utopia.

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

My Wheat & Tares post for tomorrow


"Leave rationalization behind and begin to practice integrity ... " (from a 12-step manual)

Utopias fail for a number of reasons.

The biggest reasons are:
  • Failure of economic alignment
  • Generational conflicts
  • Collapses of integrity
  • Loss of community
  • Insufficient resources.
Collapses in integrity can be driven by economic or generational issues, but are often just greed.  The early LDS anti-banking society failed (as forensic audits have now confirmed) because of embezzlement.  Without that, it would have succeeded.  Orderville collapsed, among other things, because the desire for store bought pants led to cheating (there were other issues, but that was the final straw).  Beyond those familiar examples, a number of other utopian movements have collapsed because of catastrophic failures of integrity.

Historic examples of failed utopian projects are often histories of infidelity, betrayal and lies, coupled with resentments and recursions.  Leadership and self-deception, and all the related concepts are important to preserving integrity (and a sense of community).  But it is amazing to think that without the embezzlement the anti-banking society would have done quite well.  Nothing in the narratives about it prepared me for that.


Generational conflicts often doom artistic utopian communities.  It is fascinating to watch the continual failure of artistic utopian communities caused by the generational conflicts where the community meets the needs of the parents, but not of the children.  The parents pastoral paradise is a limited and boring hell for the children.  It happens in other venues as well. The blending of Akido and gardening that made a utopian retirement community for some martial artists held no attraction for younger adults or children.

Reprising Orderville, boys in good homespun did not seem as attractive as those with creased pants.  The parents ethos was anathema to the children.  Just as bad are societies built around adult's images of childhood perfection that satisfy neither. 

Economic alignment is where economic self-interest aligns with society.  As it fails, basic forces tear communities apart.  Where it succeeds you have Hutterite communities spreading across Canada.  (The successes and failures of the Hutterites provide a good number of examples and guidelines for what works, what doesn't and for whom it works).

Much of Joseph Smith's United Order template of each person managing property for themselves and turning over to the common storehouse the excess beyond what they could conserve and manage is an example of economic alignment.  Orderville, on the contrary, had all the property held in common and all the income turned over, which led to divergences.  The economic essays I've posted before all feed into understanding how this fits together or fails to fit together.


Insufficient resources -- that pretty much sums up many failed experiences.  If everyone starves to death, the community fails.

Finally, Loss of Community (or disenfranchisement)  is a hall mark of failures for many utopias.  It can come when followers and leaders do not feel equally invested or equally respected.  Orderville (again) had this, not only from the generational conflicts and the loss of economic alignment, but from the culture clash of a strong willed leader and members who felt divested.  The small employee-owned Bessemer furnaces do not survive if they grow beyond 200 or so employees in any site.  Community fails somewhere between 100 and 200 adults. 

It is a surprisingly small number. cf http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunbar%27s_number


Other projects seem to survive larger numbers, depending on things such as piece work compensation and other direct economic linkages (as well as linkages that turn a community into a collection of smaller interlocking communities) between work and reward.  Social welfare services in such communities tend to be completely separated from work related compensation and endeavors.  It is surprising how some approaches can overcome some large degree of disenfranchisement. (e.g. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hutterite)

The roots of failure for Utopias are important in seeking Zion.

Zion is a utopian endeavor, for a holy people, seeking a higher law.

So, what do you think Zion will be like?  How would you approach it? If you were to write a book (or a blog comment), what would it say?

Do you think people can approach Zion in their own lives or as a group?

I'm curious what you think?

For reference ;)

Approaching Zion (The Collected Works of Hugh Nibley, Vol 9)

Sunday, May 15, 2011

I'm back

Seems strange, but blogger managed to lock me out for a while.  Suddenly, today, my password is working again, as if nothing had ever changed.

Tuesday, May 03, 2011

What about .... reflecting on a fallen world

Christ often remarked on commandments and rules that existed because of the weakness of the people and that reflected not the eternal world, but instead the cultural and social failings of the people.  On divorce, mocking others, tithing, charity and a number of other topics he had cause to address those types of commandments.

First, he would affirm that the commandment was of God.

Second, he would state that it did not reflect a positive comment on the people it was given to, a license for sin, or special privilege.

Third, he would tell them about the higher law they should be reaching for, should be obeying, should have drawn their hearts to.

I would suggest that every time we think of a commandment, ritual, or other situation as being a result of our weakness (or that of those who have come before us) and the fallen nature of the world and the shortcomings of the context that existed, we ask ourselves what would Christ do?

Would he say that those explanations justify rejecting the revelation of God?  No.  He expressly did not do that.

Would he say that the commandment colored by the state of those who received it justified not transcending the fallen world?  Again, no.  He expressly stated that the commandment was a floor, not a ceiling.

Would he say that holiness is found in the old commandment or the higher law?

You know the answer.

Sunday, May 01, 2011

Slavery, mitzvah, priesthood and feminism.

After the reading in the Bar Mitzvah we attended yesterday, my wife pointed me to a line of analysis that would strongly imply that the priesthood is only given to those who are truly free.

The priesthood ban reflects nothing lacking in Blacks, but rather the sin and oppression (not yet ended) that they were enduring. In that analysis one finds a similar conclusion that women not having the priesthood is more a reflection of the depth of inequality in society.

Now, that may not be the reason, but as I have read the recent exegesis on the Book of Mormon (brilliant work), I have wondered how much of that lesson about their blindness applies to us, should be likened to us.

Just pondering.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Cast off, walking boot a success this week

A good lead into Easter. All around improvements for Rachel.  Got to talk to Heather, will see her not too long from now.  Get to hear Win breathing when I'm asleep.



May Easter be joyous for you.

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Monday, April 11, 2011

Phoebe in Wonderland

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- DVD (June 23, 2009) Starring Felicity Huffman and Elle Fanning

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A movie about a child with Tourette's Syndrome, a mother who blames herself, obsessive-compulsive behavior and Alice in Wonderland.  Made me just about cry.  If  your child has Tourette's, you will really see yourself in this film.

Sunday, April 03, 2011

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Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Refusing to be bound

We refuse to be bound by the interpretations which others place upon our beliefs, or by what they allege must be the practical consequences of our doctrines. Men have no right to impute to us what they think may be the logical deduction from our beliefs, but which we ourselves do not accept.

So often it seems that someone else tries to define for us what we are, what we believe, in whom we have faith.

My Wheat&Tares post tomorrow is on prayer.  I had started one on how correlation was not causation, nor was it cooperation.  Thus President Hinckley could state that we needed some limits on guns without being in the same camp as the Libyan dictator who attempted to disarm his opponents the better to kill them all or those who promote various items of gun control in an agenda to remove all firearms from the hands of the population.

If you've ever read Dan Quayle Was Right  you are aware that there was a movement aimed at destroying traditional families, encouraging children to have sex, and promoting acceptance of what was, at the time, considered unnatural as natural. Yet, perhaps, favoring allowing all to marry, no matter who, what or when they may, does not necessarily mean embracing or cooperating with that movement.  Or perhaps it does.

I'm sure that would have resulted in more commentary, but ever since I read the http://www.feministmormonhousewives.org/ post on prayer, I've been thinking more about it again.  And deciding that I can define for myself what prayer is, what the consequences of it are, and what I accept about it.

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Rachel's new ride ...

Ok, not a car or even a bicycle, but she is getting really good with this new vehicle.
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Monday, March 14, 2011

Rachel fell off a cliff at Turner Falls, bruised, battered, but will recover

http://www.turnerfallspark.com/ is the location, has always been a family favorite.

Transverse process fractures, lung contusion, fracture to left heel, bruised, split her pants.  

http://orthoinfo.aaos.org/topic.cfm?topic=a00368 kind of explains what a transverse process fracture is.  To quote "transverse process fractures are predominantly treated with gradual increase in motion, with or without bracing, based on comfort level."
She fell about twenty feet.  They are coming home tonight so Win told me not to drive up, expects we would just pass each other on the way. I feel helpless, obviously.

If she was worse off, I'd feel even worse. I had to go to work today, have to go in for a hearing set by a judge tomorrow and while it is a telephone hearing, they said no cell phones. Otherwise I'd have been up there with them, I had vacation scheduled so we could go as a family.

A terrible thing to tell Heather about, except we couldn't hide it from her either. So Win called her to give her a heads up, I called her when we had more news. I'm just grateful it is "battered and bruised" rather that "broken" or worse. 

Saturday, March 12, 2011

You may be hard core, but we don't put up with lifting weights in pink stripe oxford dress shirts around here ...

About my experience at the gym today ...

Other threads about my lifting at:

  • http://tnation.t-nation.com/free_online_forum/sports_body_training_performance_bodybuilding_senior/returning_to_iron
  • http://tnation.t-nation.com/free_online_forum/sports_body_training_performance_bodybuilding_senior/the_over_50_lifter

My training this year has been spotty.  Realized I need to just lift to lift, not for any other reasons.

Got out to the rec center after a meeting.  I had a black polo on under my button down dress shirt, but I was in a hurry, so I ended up not taking time to take the dress shirt off.

Leg Press:  405lb/9 reps.  Under my PR, but on the way back. 
Adductor, 165 (machine max) lb/18 reps.
Abductor, 165 (machine max) lb/13 reps.
Triceps cable pull-down, 145 lb/8 reps.  I'm just getting the hang of this exercise.
Pull down machine (like doing pull-ups, but the weight comes to you) 200lb/8 reps
Robe Curl, 180lb/8 reps
One handed wood chop on cable weight machine, 70lb/9 reps
Overhead dumbbell press, 2x35lb dumbbells/9 reps
Dumbbell Row, 75lb/9 reps each side
Back machine, still 245lb (machine max), 12 reps -- do this to work my hamstrings as much as anything (have the foot rest set so my legs aren't locked out).

Good workout, but a guy stopped me to tell me "You may be hard core, but we don't put up with lifting weights in pink stripe oxford dress shirts around here" after I was finished working out.

He figured I was in a hurry, was impressed with the leg work I was doing, the teasing was gentle.

Then yard work, remulched the chickens, dug out and replaced the sand for the sand baths, miscellaneous stuff around the house, the darn spa still isn't running right since the pool was resurfaced.

But I'm hoping to get back into keeping at it again.

But no more oxford dress shirts while I'm lifting.  It just was kind of cold today.